When I was growing up, the
first ten years or so of my life our little town was still a farm town. Yes it
was a suburb of Chicago, but you took two lane country roads for miles before
you entered the urbanized landscape of Chicago. And being a small town out in
the country, everybody knew everybody else. It was mostly friendly and easy to
talk to your neighbors. Now that town is part of the unbroken urban Chicago
sprawl.
I don't know if people back
in the Midwest are as friendly as they used to be, but I am. I know most of my
neighbors here in Gayberry, Florida. In fact Mark refers to me as Mrs. Kravitz,
like on Bewitched, because I'm always waving at people, saying hello, and
passing on gossip. My problem is that not everybody here is from a small town
in the Midwest. The majority are from up around New York and have those "New York values". So I probably
shouldn't be so insulted when I am walking Chandler late at night, and people ignore me. Sometimes I try to
strike up a conversation with another dog walker and they keep walking without
acknowledging me. Just last night as we made our way around the block in the
dark, I came upon another man walking a dog about half the size of Chandler. I
said hello and made some remarks about the dogs being all frisky because of the
cool weather. Nothing. The other guy walking his dog looked at me as if I were
some kind of serial killer, and said nothing. He just skedaddled on down the
street. That happens often and I can't explain it. Maybe I just look scary at
night, or maybe people just don't want to be friendly to a strange man at
night. Whatever, one thing I do know is that Chandler is an excellent judge of
character. After I said hello to that guy last night and was blown off by him,
Chandler went nuts, like he wanted to tear the guy apart. Hmmm... maybe it was
the other way around. Maybe Chandler went nuts as I said hello, and then the
guy skedaddled.
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